By Lynne Cory

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What if I see all of my imperfections in my mate or my friends as they are holding up a mirror for me? What if I see you as bossy or controlling or lazy or angry or critical?

What if everything I criticized or judged about you was in me or I would not be able to see it in you?

What if all the good and generous and helpful and kind and loving and compassionate characteristics I love about you are also in me?