By Lynne Cory
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What if I “always” bring on my own stress by how I respond to situations? What if I am having a party and everything must be perfect, handmade food, a perfect table setting, polished silver, fresh flowers, clean windows, etc.? What if I make it so perfect that by the time my guests arrive I am so tired that I can hardly wait until they leave? What if I bought some food, used paper plates and joined the party and we all had a great time? What if they did not come to visit my house?