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By Lynne Cory

What if I watch my children and grandchildren giving their money and time and possessions to others “seemingly” less fortunate and not keeping enough for themselves to maintain their own independence?

What if I had modeled this way for years and often with undeserving people who took advantage of me?

What if I began to change and so did they?

What if it is not selfish to get my needs met by me first and then help others?