What if you need to ask my permission first?

By Lynne Cory

What if we have control issues because it makes us feels safe?  What if I get angry at you for doing it your way because my sense of control is threatened?  What if it is OK to guide another or advise when they ask but when anger comes up, I notice that I am deep in my issue?  What if I can tell if I have released this issue when I can allow everyone their own choices?