By Lynne Cory
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What if there is no kidding in kidding and everything that we do or say to another is about 98% serious?
What if my actions make the other person feel “less than” or I feel dirty, sneaky or sad (if I am in tune with my feelings) after I kid them, and then I know that I am on the wrong path? What if I am trying to put them down to bring me up?
What if I complimented you instead?