What if they are jumping up and down?

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By Lynne Cory

What if our loved ones from the other side are continuously attempting to help us: find a treasure that is ours, find a person who loves us, find the answer to our medical question and ease our life into joy?  What if they have sent messages many times and if we quiet our minds, we will begin to see and hear them?

What if you are waiting for me to ask?

By Lynne Cory

What if we ask our loved ones on the other side to show us a sign that they are around?  My daughter was picking weeds from her son’s grave and asked him the circumstances of his car going over the steep cliff.  On her way home from the cemetery, she was blinded by the extreme sun in her eyes.  My friend asked for a sign from her daughter who had passed with stage 4 cancer.  Her next appointment was from a person with stage 4 cancer.

What if the “misbehavers” have a very important purpose?

By Lynne Cory

What if being a hermit-type monk is good for spiritual growth but our souls can grow and learn more quickly when we are rubbing against each other in our crowded humanities?

What if the bad-actors in business, government and life can mirror concepts that we need to see in ourselves for our spiritual growth?  What if others who lie, cheat, frustrate and take advantage of us are our best teachers?

What if I turn my listening ears on?

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By Lynne Cory

What if I say to myself: I cannot do that, it is too hard or I am not smart enough or it is too much work for me or it is dangerous to go there or I am too old for that or others will not like me if I do that AND I am correct?

What if I say to myself: I am always safe or what can it hurt to have a go at that or age is just a belief or it might be fun to try that or I wonder if I could do that AND I am correct?

What if my soul knows the answer?

By Lynne Cory

What if when I am in a “quandary,” I sit and ask my soul which way to go as my soul has been with me since my first lifetime and knows me intimately?

What if my soul has had many positive and negative experiences with me over the lifetimes and also has a great memory?

What if my soul had answers that I could not even imagine?

What if I talk too much?

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By Lynne Cory

What if I never have enough? Woe is me, I think. What if I commiserate with all of my friends about my lack?

What if it stays the same or gets worse and the lack piles up around my ankles?

What if I start thinking about and talking about what is good in my life?

What if things start to slowly get better and then take off like a rocket?

What if she is distracting me?

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By Lynne Cory

What if I continue to call a friend who then talks on and on and on about herself and rarely asks about me?

What if I am creating my own life and find that I am using her as a distraction to stop me from doing something I am hesitant or fearful of doing?

What if once I realize this, I begin to use my time more effectively?

What if I threw a big, loud tantrum?

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By Lynne Cory

What if I have asked and asked for something but it has not been delivered and I am getting mad and tired of waiting for it to come?

What if this is similar to going to a restaurant and ordering sea bass but it never comes because the chef knows the fish that day is old and will not be good for me and she offers something else?

What if the Universe holds back on things not for my highest good but brings the perfect thing at the perfect time?