By Lynne Cory

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What if I have a friend and every time we get together, he grills me like a hamburger with 5000 questions and every time I try to inquire about him he replies with more questions and advice?

What if I know that he is trying to distract me from finding anything out about his very personal life and business and would be insulted if I asked him the questions he has no difficulty in asking me?

What if because of his ways, we cannot have a real conversation because I am always on guard and he is always thinking of the next question?

What if he really did care?